Master Key Week 13 ~ Redecorating & Recommitting

28 Dec

OLD FURNITURE

Probably the biggest problem people have in making a change is old furniture.  Old furniture of course representing old habits which are the result of old thoughts.

A word about the word ‘old,’ if I may.

I am not talking about ‘tired’ or out of date stuff.  I just mean the time it’s been in there…..some of the best thoughts I have are over 50 years old.  🙂

Say please and thank you.

Don’t chew with your mouth open.

2 ears and 1 mouth is a clue.

That kind of stuff.  Good stuff.  Old in terms of time – yes…..but manners never go out of style, neither does listening.  Good stuff.

Over the years we also acquire thoughts or ideas about ourselves and business and life that create don’t generate the results we want.  We habitually reach, mentally, for a different result but the ‘old’ furniture predetermines our actions – same result.  Bummer.

The Master Key System has taught us that and we’ve realized, as a group, we need to get the ‘old’ furniture out before we can bring in ‘new’ stuff.

I feel kind sorry for all those people making New Years Resolutions, don’t you?   We know better.

HABITS

Our thought habits dictates our action habits and our results.

We’ve learned that only a habit can replace a habit from Og Mandino.

Haneel points out that we can’t focus on the old way of thinking to get rid of it and Emmet Fox drives home this point with the grand-daddy of the 7 Laws of the Mind, the Law of Growth.

On this there is no debate, Fox, Og and Haneel are in 100% agreement.

We’ve done the work and set up PTs, [physcological triggers], to leverage this knowledge.   We all know knowledge won’t apply itself.

Pretty simple.

Develop an authentic DMP, leverage the 7 Laws of the Mind & the 7 Ways People learn then set up combinations to keep that vision in the frontal lobe.

Out with the old and in with the new.

Easy, right?

REAL LIFE TOSSES A CURVE

Every get something new, a new hassock to put your feet up on…..a new sofa that is perfect for that new nap?

We are thrilled when it arrives.

It looks great.

It is functional.

We are ecstatic….

Why did I wait so long to get it?

How could I have lived without this?

Everyday we come home….the ‘hit’ from the new item remains exciting……..and maybe we even thought about it while not at home.

Then, a few weeks or so later, we don’t even think about it or notice it any longer.  It’s glitter is gone.

Anyway, most people experience the same thing with the Master Keys and the clever ways they’ve learned to keep consciounsly and subconsciously pull the PTs…….we’re impressed with the material, we’re learning new stuff, we are overcoming challenges of time and material……and we are excited.

And, like furniture or the ‘new car’ smell……it wanes.

That is what happens in real life……and this is just too important to let it slide because we know what is next…..the old blueprint.

THE BAD NEWS

Most people, when it comes to bad news – good news – want the bad news first.

The bad news is you can’t keep the old blueprint out.

We simply cannot resolve to ‘not do that’ or ‘not do this’ and expect that to work.

MK students know that is only giving power to the old furniture, the old thoughts-action-habit.

THE GOOD NEWS

We get rid of the old furniture NOT by trying to get rid of it but ignoring it.  The Law of Substitution really plays in our favor here.

By keeping the new blueprint, the new vision……the new furniture in our minds constantly, the old thoughts simply die.

Very cool.

BUT…….

But what about the glitter of new things fading?

Simple.

To recommit and keep it fresh and vital, redecorate.

You can do this in one of two ways.

METHOD 1

Simply replace the shapes you have around your home, car & office with ‘different’ ones.  It’s like getting a new sofa, it really is.

Let’s say the one on the fridge is missing the text on the blue rectangle.  Move that one to another spot and put the one on the other spot where the one on the fridge was.

Now you’ve got a yellow box blank on the fridge.

I’ve suggested you ‘touch’ the blank shape and verbally fill it in.  Those who’ve followed this suggestion will feel a rejuvenation around these now ‘old and taken for granted’ tools that work.

METHOD 2

Print out another set and put it next to the existing one.  Fill in both blanks.

This one is sort of an advanced version and really, when combined with the mind-gym adds a vitality that is powerful.

It looks like this:

What I’ve learned, especially in a ‘break week’ is to take my right hand [little mind-gym action here], lift my left foot and touch, in this order, blue-yellow on one sheet then move on to the next sheet.  Then I reverse the process, using my left hand and right foot.

This tiny movement engages both sides of the brain…..and we all know moving furniture around in a living room can revitalize the feel of the room……

And…..your DMP…….hmmmmmm

So recommit now, not January 1st.  Freshening it up and vitalize it.

The negative thinking inside the old blueprint requires constant attention because, as you know, negative thoughts are lifeless to begin with…..by focusing on your ‘new -but-now-used-to-furniture’ and moving it around a little bit, it gets revitalized and we get recommitted.

The really cool thing here is you understand all this…..but…..knowledge does not apply itself.

Re-decorate today.

believe

mark januszewski

worlds laziest networker

Master Key Week 12 ~ Out of Kindergarten, On Middle School :::>College Next Month?

19 Dec

CRAYONS AND SCISSORS

OK, I get that you get it…..we started with things that brought us back to when we were really open-minded…..so we’d be, well, more open-minded.

Shapes, cutting things out, coloring…..for those who don’t understand what we are doing…..it can seem kinda childlike.

The point needs to be made, again, that institutions stole from us…..and we’ve all been looking for something, as Billy Joel writes….something taken out of our soul, something we’d never lose…..something somebody stole.

Some meant to steal from us…..most did not.

The amazing fear-based thinking of people with decision-making power or responsibility led to this theft…..and our great gift …..that inspires others…..our ability to ‘be aware of wonder’…..got diluted to the point, for most of us….if not all of us….to the point where we were reacting to life instead of creating it.

GRADUATION

You’ve made it this far because you’ve decided to ‘reclaim’ the spirit of adventure…..of discovery…..of wonder……and are, like the Fabulous Davene, chuckling at the critics who label us a ‘cult’….the same book-burning small minds….who fire barbs at of prejudice, fearing what they do not understand……and you fire back love, Scroll 2 🙂

It is when we get to this point….that we know that we know that we know…that we know….that we have ‘discovered’ a way to reclaim the gifts we were given…..mind, spirit….soul, if you will…..and declare our indviduality….and our ability to think and create instead of conform….that we have graduated.

And, you have.

RESPONSIBILITY

It’s not easy…..knowing Master Key System combined with the exercises and effort will yield a life second to none.

I’ve sat on my couch at 3:00 AM, just like you…..and wondered why I did not do my best with these simple tasks…..wondered why I don’t read my DMP with a BIG, EXCITED VOICE….

We know it works……and in your heart you know it too.

Why do we ‘skip’ things……why do we not ‘throw our heart’ over the bar that has been set by our old blueprint.

Sure, we can say, “I don’t need to do this….I am a self-starter“……but at 3:oo AM….or whatever time you have that little twinge about not being faithful to ‘a few minutes is a small price to pay’…..our responsibility kicks us in the butt…..and we know we are just kidding ourselves….and we question ourselves.

Conscience?

Yup.

But a different kind…..the kind that comes when we pay the price to acquire knowledge, which you have.

It may be painful…when we get off track for a day …..but it’s really a beautiful thing.

Why?

A BEAUTIFUL THING?  FEELING BAD?

Once a mind is stretched by a new idea…..it can never regain its orginal shape.

So, celebrate…..those moments when we rationalize not doing the simple things that ‘are but a small price to pay’ [Scroll 1]…..because it means you have done the work and stretched your mind.

Ah…the field of infinite possibilities and pure potentialities….

We don’t know what we don’t know until we know it…..and, now, you know it….this amazing power within you is available 24-7…..and……there is no getting away from it.

Kindergarten is over….middle school……and Janury 2, for those who follow the suggestions….right into college.

HUH?  STRAIGHT TO COLLEGE?

If you look at the rate of speed we are now covering material and the intricate crisscrossing of exercises and concepts……and that you understand them, which you do…..you should notice something very interesting….compared to the “Sunday Sessions” of October…..the speed is 4x faster AND you get it……

For those who have recommitted to the exercises or never lost focus…..January will produce, effortlessly and instantly, the changes you would like to see in your personality and character.

Resolutions, for reasons most people do not understand, do not work.  You know why they don’t…peptides, blueprints, neuro-nets, associative memory…..and these 3 weeks in Middle School with the ‘flash cards’ will set you up to leverage The Law of Growth……and make any changes you want.

This type of advanced stuff…..is the payoff, [like the 4 little habits whose fruit was authentic persistence], and having the ability to leverage these things to instantly eliminate short-comings so our faith, family and financial journeys go how we want them to….is mind-blowing to those who do not understand….

Imagine being able to identify an area you want to improve in and modify your behavior so dramatically and rapidly that….people who have known you for decades don’t recognize this new, powerful, dynamic spirit…..or as Og says in Scroll 1…..they don’t know you for you are a new person with a new life.

Quite a jump from kindergarten to Post Graduate in 3 weeks.

They’ll think you’re a genius…..and you’ll know that is not the case at all.

They’ll be stunned and look on you with admiration…..but you’ll know the truth…

The truth you’ve heard…..John Wooden quoting Grantland Rice

From an interview with Wooden….”………..but let me summarize it by quoting the last two lines of “How to Be a Champion” by Grantland Rice: “Most of it is practice / The rest of it is work.” I was a good practice coach, perhaps among the best. Championships are won in practice. Success starts with work.”

We know you’re doing the work…..the middle school flash card exercise?

You’re gonna love the payoff.

believe

mark januszewski

world’s laziest networker

Master Key ~ Week 11 ~ Persistence = Manifestation

10 Dec

BIGGER THAN WE CAN THINK

The effect of setting up authentic DMPs based on our PPNs is obvious at this point to the members.

People simply are noticing change in us, everywhere….mostly before we even notice it ourselves.

Very Cool 🙂

So we could say that your DMP is the battleship ….or the plant…..no matter…..and members of this Master Mind know I am referring to 2 specific chapters.

Whether we are growing it…..to see it…..or we see is and are breaking it down to what we need to do daily is critical and really just a difference in thinking style.

Does it matter?

No, not really.  All that matters, whether we ‘battleship’ it and reduce it…..or we start with an acorn and end with a forrest……doesn’t matter as long as we do 2 simple things.

1. How we see it does not matter…..that we see it does.

2. Action

KNOWLEDGE WILL NOT APPLY ITSELF

While a held vision will create the methods…….we can’t be like the guy in a cold room with a wood stove who says to the stove…..”give me some heat and I’ll toss in some wood.”

We unconsciously create the methods…..the ‘wood’ if you will….and, after Week 11’s Class …..we know we’ve got to take action……think of the methods as the ‘wood’….we’ve got to keep tossing ‘wood’ into the stove to continue to have heat.

We’ve got to keep taking ‘persistent’ action to manifest our DMP.

How do we do that on a daily basis?

Easy…..more on this during class 12…..but here’s a video to explain exactly what I do, to this day.

This method has made our dreams come true…..and the cool thing, it works for everybody.

Why?

It is a specific method to gain the ‘insurmountable’ advantage Og talks about in Scroll 3.

Would having an insurmountable advantage over your previous, [and dying blueprint], make a difference?

OBSTACLES & PRIZES

The moment we realize taking care of our own needs ….. as long as they are compliance with the Universal Mind….our life changes so much, it’s almost incomprehensible.

The reality is our just beginning to manifest our objectives creates a ripple effect that is bigger than we can think.

The thrill of getting it done….deciding what we want and taking both consistent and persistent action …is dwarfed by the positive effect it has on others.

The prize of moving to Kauai with the Fabulous Davene…..has been eclipsed by seeing all 4 kids upping their ambition level and seeing them…..effortlessly, overcome obstacles….has virtually eliminated the type of bigger fears all parents share….about their life, safety and….the big one….will life be too harsh on my babies?……we hate seeing obstacles knock them down and hurt them.

These fears around our kids gets replaced by confidence for those lucky who know what you now know about persistence and set the example.

Let’s face it, after the rebellion period to create separation, our kids end up doing what we do, not what we say.

I thought you’d like to meet my 24-year-old to illustrate this point….and being able to witness this journey….her journey to manifesting her DMP….replaced those fears I had for her, like all the kids….with peace of mind.

Why?

She knows the 4 tiny habits …..and she has them

believe

mark januszewski

world’s laziest networker

Master Key Week 10 ~ Living Inside the Dream & Having Fun

30 Nov

IF WE HATE THE JOURNEY, THE PRIZE SUCKS

Hey, let’s be honest.  The profession can be frustrating.

Prospects lie constantly.

New reps vanish.

Want to be leaders do every thing except prospect.

Prior to understanding the Master Key System…..

This was me…….

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr!…..#&%^#% …….more Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

There is an old saying….that the squeaky wheel gets the grease…..

But…..there is a second part.

The squeaky wheel may get the grease but it does not enjoy the ride.

And, even when I started making big bucks, the pay-off for all the pain was not enough.

LOVE THE JOURNEY

Tinkering with the 7 Laws of the mind made a profound difference and the Master Key + The Mental Diet made everything better…..

But…..it was living inside the dream, touching it all the time, that really made the journey a blast.

We were living in Kauai long before we got here, the new reality was not something in the future, it was now, today, this very moment.

We sleep on pillow cases with pictures of us in them, in Kauai.

We bought coffee in ebay from Kauai.

We put palm trees all over the house.

You name it, we did it….shower curtians with palm trees, cooking with coconut oil, listening to Hawaiian music……

But we did more….we found ways to actually ‘touch’ the new reality…..way before Kauai….way before my first visit to Kauai…..we found ways to ‘touch’ the new reality often…..and…..did it over and over.

This places on, while on the journey, inside the Law of Substitution…..and all that annoying stuff ……vaporizes……and the journey becomes a delight.

When the journey is a delight, the pay-off is greater than we can imagine. When the journey is grrrrrrrrrr, the pay-off is never enough.

Enjoying the journey for me is more than just using my imagination…..it is about physically touching the new reality.

Here’s an example of what I do now to touch the new reality and a couple of examples of what I did way back in 1993.

Did I mention all MKMMAer’s are in this video?

believe

mark januszewski

world’s laziest networker

Master Key Week 9 ~ Combinations, Law of Growth & Fink’s Sweet Spot

24 Nov

AIN’T IT COOL?

The truth will set us free.  Ain’t it cool to know that being pegged as left-brain or right-brain learner was all a load of crap?

All those CD peddling guru’s trying to make us feel inferior…telling us we could learn to liberate our ‘submissive right side’ if we’d buy their bullshit?

The $2000 to $10,000 weekends, the books, the lectures…..the webcasts……all designed to make us feel ….less than…..stunted…..like we’d never reach our potential……unless we get ‘in touch’ with the right side……and to do that we’d have to ante up.

And the little tests and optical illusions they show us …..to help us ‘confirm’ we were sterile on the right side….”helping us” prove to ourselves there really is something wrong with us……and ‘for the low-low price of $XX I can help you become complete, put you in touch with your feelings and higher self’

Ain’t it cool to know you are NOT incomplete?  Phew, what I relief…..I was soooooooooooooo worried that I was incomplete 🙂

Like God didn’t quite finish me?

That the creator, somehow, forgot to put something in there?

THE MECHANISM

As Haanel points out….and common sense endorses…..the ‘mechanism’ is perfect…..the operator may need to sharpen his/her skills to leverage this flawless mechanism, our ability to think, create and manifest what we want…..but the mechanism works perfectly.  I am the one, as The Fabulous Davene pointed out last week……I….we…..have proved this over and over…..I am the one who created the roadblocks ….I am the one who created the conditions…..and I am the one who is responsible for everything in my life.

The 7 Laws of the mind coupled with the exercises do not change the mechanism they just teach us how to use it better….to be a better operator.

My mechanism works perfectly……so does everyone elses.

THE SWEET SPOT

Fink’s research on left brain – right brain proves both sides are needed.  The ‘sweet spot’ is hit when a brain takes a thought or data and via the corpus callosum [the thick bundle of nerve fibres that forms the main connection between the cerebral hemispheres] the two sides combine and complement one another.

Do people have a ‘preferred style’ …..left, data based…..or right, concept based…they are more receptive to gathering?  Yes.

Are we exclusively one way or the other?  No.

The ‘sweet spot’ is hit when the transferring of information, from one hemisphere to the other, is fluid and fast…..letting us leverage the incredible potential and power…..of a Master Mind…..creating a Master Mind Alliance between the 2 hemispheres if you will…..

We can facilitate this with exercise, the Law of Growth and truth.

TRUTH

Letting go of the myth that we are exclusively one side [L-R], or  the other….because we took the time to discover the truth that both sides are needed to unerstand and apply life’s lessons…..is step one.

It’s easy to ‘let go’ when you know the truth.

What do we do with this truth to manifest our desires?

EXERCISE & LAW OF GROWTH

9 weeks to get to 1 simple, irrefutable law…..the Law of Growth.

What we think about grows.

With all the distractions of life……old blue-prints and our celluar addiction to peptides that reinforce the old blueprint….we gotta exercise…..and in a way so different that our subconscious does not recognize….so it is easy to establish a new habit.

And it would sure help if these exercises were designed in such a manner that it they would facilitate rapid interaction between the left and right side….in other words….they were designed to hit the sweet spot…….

And it sure would help if they also ‘pinged’ the 7 ways people learn.

And it sure would be fantastic if the exercises worked equally well for both ‘preferred [L-R] processing styles.

Well, together we have.

WANT TO GO FASTER WITH LESS EFFORT?

Easy to do…..work the exercises in ‘combinations.’

What does that mean?

I’ll show you a few…..

We’d love to hear in the members area combinations you’ve discovered

believe

mark januszewski

world’s laziest networker

Master Key Week 8 ~ It’s In You, Let It Loose

18 Nov

RIVER OF DREAMS

OK,OK….. I get that you may think my idea about using the River of Dreams and some of the verses symbolically is a little much…..or overused ……or that I have an obsession with Billy Joel’s tune……but, I don’t.

As I started working the Master Key System……by myself…..and getting my mind bent, or bent back……I got a little freaked out and The River of Dreams was, a particular line, the tipping point.

BEGINNING AT THE BEGINNING

The best way to tell the story is to turn the clock back.  Failing in networking for the 6th time, [I’d failed 5 times in the 80’s and it was 1993 before I took another shot], when, at 3:00 AM I reached for “Think and Grow Rich.”  Eventually, learning this is a skill based business and applying the principles to my networking business under the “Think and Grow Rich” umbrella…..led to some successes and I got the idea to learn more about Hill, its author.   That research about Hill led me to Haanel’s Master Key System.   That was in 1993, early 1994…….

Billy Joel’s Grammy Award winning River of Dreams broke in 1993.

Coincidence?

BILLY AND THE BREAKTHROUGH

So, like a lot of folks, I feel like I am having a breakdown.  It was not until years later that “What the Bleep Do We Know?” was released and Haanel’s ideas became scientifically documented…..I future students could be informed that they were not going through a ‘breakdown’ but rather a breakthrough…..that is breaking their cells addiction, a chemical addiction to peptides.

So I am reading the Master Key and doing my 15-30 minutes of sitting still and unknowingly breaking a chemical addiction …..and knowing in my heart, really knowing, this the material was dead-center prefect…..but it was not working for me.  Maybe it was, which is why Master-minding is so crucial…..but I knew something was amiss.

I remember this so vividly.  I am driving down Route 1 to Boston and thinking about what I am hanging on to so tightly that I cannot create the changes needed to manifest the life I wanted.


BANG…..Billy’s singing River of Dreams and I hear it.

“I must be lookin’ for somthin’

taken out of my soul

somthin’ I’d never lose

somethin’ somebody stole’

Tears running down my face…..the socio-educational-govermental-parental influences had not only set absurd standards, made me self conscious…..and influenced me so much without my knowledge that I realized the truth of my being had been stolen.

The insane standards that advertisers, entertainment and the other previously mentioned influences had created impossible standards for things like beauty, normal, lifestyle etc……and my reality was drawn from that …and worse…..’how to act’…….geez…..

I pulled out my DMP and read it with all my heart…..at the top of my lungs.  I was no longer doing ‘exercises’ I creating a new life.  Now.

I was elated all day…..a feeling I have never had before and one that has never, 16+ years later diminished.

I realized I had been keeping a lot of what I was doing cloaked.

I LET IT ALL HANG OUT

I moved the dreamboard into the living room and made another one for my makeshift office.  A few days later I made a third one….to replace the one I had taken out of the office.

I really did not care what other’s feelings were about stuff I had around my house.  I began reading my short version of my DMP while standing in line for coffee or checking out at the grocery store.

I was not acting, being brave or behaving in a ‘fake-it-till-you-make-it’ manner.

Excited about what I knew was going to happen with my mind and my outer world…..I let it all hang out.

What did I ‘let all hang out?’

The joyful spirit I came to this world with……childlike enthusiasim……and I totally abandon the insipid idea that maturity meant, in essence, giving up that glorious spirit….to ‘fit in.’

We are taught to ‘conform’ ……to ‘grow up’…..to ‘get realistic’……..what a crock of bullshit.

Shortly after this breakthrough……I came across this little ditty…

“Sing like no one is listening…….dance like no one is watching…..and love like you’ve never been hurt”

This amazing optimist, excited optimist, lives within all of us…….and deals with adversity knowing that the seed for equal or greater value lies within the adversity…..

So…..let it out baby, let it out……we don’t have to go get it, we can’t buy it and even though it was stolen, anyone of us can reclaim it instantly…….

Throw your heart into it baby……as Jimminy Cricket sang…..”if your heart is in your dream……no request is too extreme”

And when you go to the guy or the gal in the glass…..do what this kid does……You should be excited to see yourself !

It is already in you…..let it loose

believe

mark januszewski

world’s laziest networker

Week 7 ~ The Mental Diet & Laws of the Mind

12 Nov

MENTAL DIET

As soon as you have a negative thought, held for more than 7 seconds…..we gotta start over…..and keep starting over until we get 7 days put together, back-to-back, with a single negative thought.

A tall order?  No……just kidding…..Yes.

Massive payoff? Yes…yes..YES

Abandoning negative thoughts for 7 days, all negative thought seems easy when we first hear it.  We really believe ourselves to be positive people.  After all, we’re sure we picked the correct company to work with…..we have a dream…..and all we want to do is help other people dream and teach them what to do so they can have their dream.

We get that by helping others get what they want and need…..we’ll get a lot more than what we want and need.

We are so damn nice 🙂

Negative thoughts…….naw, not us.

Yeah, I know….we think…..I may have a negative thought here or there…..but this is going to be a piece of cake.

SURPRISE

So we all woke up Monday morning thinking this was going to be easy….after all…..we are in the dream-selling, helping others business…..we’re postive.  Most of us forgot we were even supposed to do it….it’s so easy….and it’s easy to forget easy things….

That was about, say, 7:00 AM.  By 9:00, those who are ‘observers’ of our own behavior had restarted the mental diet 10 – 20 times.

Is this really me?  Am I negative?  I’m not negative….OK, I had a negative thought in the coffee shop…..and 5 or 6 in the car….then I got a call from my spouse and stuff went wrong with the washer & dryer ….but I am not being negative….I am not negative…..these are just ‘normal’ reactions to life.

The facts are….they are negative thoughts…..all of them.  So, because we know the only way to change the blue-print, create a new reality …..is honest observation and modification.

Does this make me negative?  As a person?

See, that is a negative thought….the trick is to be a non-judgemental observer and modify our thought through practice.

Stimulus-Response is how most people look at life…..coming off Newton’s Law that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.

While it is true in physics…..it is not true in the mind…….the world of matter and the world of mind….that is the laws that govern them….are opposite.

Master Key students who are emerging as Master….know that in the mind …..it is …..

Stimulus-CHOICE-Response

Aha!

CHOICE or NO CHOICE

The videos introducing the class and the material in the class make it clear that the subconscious makes the decisions…..unless we create a new reality, we default to the old, ingrained response.

Those who Master themselves with the Master Keys and the exercises…..create a different vision.  By holding the vision, peppering the subconscious with it through our childlike [not childish] exercise….we create a demand….which in turn finds the supply.

Stone & Hill’s formula require a Definite of Purpose & Positive Mental Attitude……so as bury this new reality into the frontal lobe….one of the demands becomes a PMA…..and the supply of a PMA is available if we access.  We cannot ……decide to not be negative…..we need to ‘fast’…..and since the Laws of the mind prohibit dismissing a thought…..we must not think about ‘not being negative’ but instead being positive.

By using the Law of Substitution …..thinking of something else……when a negative thought comes into your mind.  Think about God….think about your dreams…..think about a pleasant moment with your kids, your husband…….your wife….

WHY THIS WORKS

It is not possible to hold 2 thoughts at the same time….while thoughts move at a blinding speed the truth is we cannot hold 2 thoughts at the same moment.

So if we substitute a good thought ….mind control…..the negative thought atrohies……..Don’t try to dismiss the negative thought or feel negative about having a negative thought…..Substitute a great thought instead….

Mental effort defeats itself…..so don’t press…but use the Law of Relaxation, which we learned in chapters 3 & 4…..negative impluse shows up, Relax the mind, like you do every time you sit….Law of Relaxation and move to a pleasant thought…..Law of Substitution.

BE THE OBSERVER

It is not Stimulus-Response for Master Key Masters like us…..it is Stimulus-CHOICE-Rresponse

If we are observer’s of our behavior, we can ‘see it coming’, a negative thought…..and CHOOSE to Relax and Substitute.

Davene Laughing at Polihale ~ My Substitution

I couldn’t think about other things…..like the ones I suggested, God, memory with kids…..but what I could think of was Davene laughing after getting spun around and somersaulted by a wave at Polihale ….and feel the joy of it all……everytime a negative thought tried to enter, I would go to the beach and in my mind re-experience that elegant moment…..and it became a habit and the diet went better everyday.

MY MENTAL DIET PILL What I did make a small picture of this day…..put it on an index card [think about all the good stuff going on mentally with index cards…good feeling #1…..] put a shape and goal on it and everytime I sensed a negative may be coming I pulled it out of my shirt pocket and used the law of substitution ……..and thought about that day so often that I could get my mind there in a nano-second……effortlessly

believe

mark januszewski

world’s laziest networker

Week 6 ~ Linking, Shapes, Colors, PPNs…..Confused? Relax

4 Nov

COURAGE x DISTANCE

There is an old saying……’He can’t see the forest through the trees’ …….and this week I want to make sure that is not happening for any of us.

We’ve said it before, we’ll say it again……the Key to the Vault that your dreams are stored in……..is this:::::> The Whole is Greater than the Sum of the Parts.

What does that mean, really?

While we’re busy putting the parts together let’s remember that those parts working together ……on your subconscious to construct a new reality……are greater in the total effect than the parts are.

While the parts make up the whole and each and every one is important to create the whole…..it is the whole experience, not the parts, where the treasure actually exists.

So what the hell does this have to do with forests and trees?

While we systematically put the parts in place, [index cards, color coding, shapes, etc.]…..call them the ‘trees’……don’t lose sight of the forest itself and, more importantly, the splendor that is taking place.

The distance we’ve each traveled from whence we began is astounding for each individual and incomprehensible collectively.

I see the courage, change and the effort in the Press Releases when I compare them to the first Definite of Purpose you sent over.

The distance you’ve each come times the courage you each keep displaying is more than inspiring……it is humbling.

The Fabulous Davene and myself are both in awe and often moved to tears.

Don’t get so hung up on what to do with the shapes, color coding etc., that you miss the forest focusing on the trees [the parts].

UNRAVELING::::>I JUST GO TOO FAST SOMETIMES

Conversations with many of you this week and lots of emails as let us know that on the Week 5 call some folks were a little uncertain about what to do with the shapes we’ve asked you to print out and display in various places……..and …….how all that links in the colors, PPNs, DMPs and Press Release…..and some folks are so worried about ‘getting it right’ that they are a little stuck.

I think, if you feel a little tangled up…..I can quickly unravel it with this video……I promise to get slow.

This video below……will unravel any entanglements of thoughts you may have….

Please take this suggestion …… go back over your first DMPs….and enjoy how far you have come…..read 5 weeks of progress on a few blogs…….and you’ll find change, guts, courage and desire…..in essence you’ll see greatness…….and……..this is really important……you cannot see ANYTHING in others that does not already exist within you.

So the splendor I was referring to was of course the action.  Each and every one of you has taken action…..you’re not on the sidelines…..you are creating a new reality [the forest] but the real beauty is found within the fact you are moving and improving a greater distance and amount everyday towards the person you want to become……just like is says in your blueprint builder.

This is tough stuff, looking within and we’re all underfire……and the grace and calm you each display daily leave The Fabulous Davene stunned and me bewildered.

WOW

Master Key Week 5 ~ Press Releases:Linking, Peptides and Pep Talks

28 Oct

Ut-Oh, THOUGHTS THAT FIRE TOGETHER WIRE TOGETHER

Week 5 is one of those ‘turn weeks’ in the course as The Fabulous Davene likes to say.  Her great post equating give birth to the course is not close….it is spot on.

Now that the ante is upped, you know….we’ve actually put calling possibilities into a plan of action AND asked everyone to share their vision……the old neuro-net is starting to kick in for all of us.

In the beginning we explained our old, familiar behaviors would demand top priority and we learned in week 4 that we actually have a chemical dependency to those feelings of underachieving……and breaking a chemical addiction is not easy.

So, those who are suddenly feeling the ‘I don’t know if I have time for ALL this,” or the “I can’t write a press release like so-and-so” or “What if they ask us to do more stuff like call people about our business and write more stuff about myself I have to put out in public?” ……..or…..or …..or……fill in the blank……it is simply our ‘old identity’ rearing its ugly head and our cells demanding its peptides to confirm a sense of self.

IRONY

We joined because we wanted change….now that we are on the cusp of it….it is scary but not in any way we’ve ever experienced.

It is light!

Remember?

We shared you would experience this if you were dilligent….’it is not our darkness we fear but that we are powerful beyond measure.’

Now that we are on the brink of change, we want to turn back to…..drum roll please….we want to turn back to the very thing we wanted to change.

Irony.  I love irony.

Every word and the sequence is there for a reason.

Every pointing out of pot holes at a specfic time in the course is linked to something else…..and something else……and should lead you back to your DMP.

Let’s connect some dots, some of you already have…..but first, a word about The Fabulous Davene’s post and this feeling like childbirth.

Virgin birth does not only appear in the Bible……it was written about in several different cultures long before the Master Teacher arrived.

The birth here is the birth of a new reality for each of us and to make that happen we must birth a new person….scary…..just like the film in week 4 says…”What am I so addicted to that I am not willing to give up so I can have something different?”

Well, that is a big question you can work out the details on but the big thing is this: Change is stressful and under stress people tend to do what they like to do, what they are used to doing BUT most of all, they like to do what is familiar….which is in direct conflict with the change…..and very often what is familiar is what we want to change….YIKES, go figure 🙂

LINKING & PEP TALK

Tell your cells to deal with it….they ain’t getting their fix.

Is it easy or is it hard?

It all depends on you following what is on the index card faithfully.

“I can be what I will to be,” 20x a day.  Right?

How you doing with that?

Out loud?

With EXCITEMENT?

Get to chanting and tell those cells to take a hike, they are not getting their fix….they are going to have to learn to deal with changing brands to the feeling you have around your vision.

Feelings around vision?

Now you know why so many DMPs went back and forth?  Feelings.  Me on the bully pulpit, remember?

Let’s link…..So now the press release…..this is your ‘I can be what I will to be.’

Chapter 5 of The Master Key asks you to think of pleasant place and the details.

So you’ve been reading, out loud, with feeling the DMP and we ask you to write a press release the same week Haneel wants you in a ‘place.’

Do you see the timing of the material to the exercises.

“I can be what I will to be,” is your new reality…..the completed DMP ….coinciding with imagining a place in week 5…….and if you’ve been reading and reading out loud with excitement simply use the 15-30 minutes to imagine yourself being interviewd…..see it in your mind’s eye and when you are done, write down what you saw.

Screw The River of Dreams and the addiction to the parts of your old self you no longer want…..give birth in your mind to the new reality and know only one thing and one thing alone can stop you…….fear that you are powerful beyond measure.

What? Little old me?

You were made first class by first class …..and can go first class by doing a first class job of helping others…….and here is the BOMBSHELL.

BOMBSHELL

When you recruit, when I recruit….we are….implying we can help other’s have a better life.

If we don’t believe we can have a better life for ourselves……why should they believe we can help them?  Truth?  They should not.  And, they don’t.

Oh, they can’t quite put their finger on it but they know not to join.

Closing, presenting…..all good stuff but the #1 recruiting tool is your vision.

Huh?

They don’t need to know what it is….but they know if you know where you are going…..

Would you follow someone who does not know where they are going?

The Fabulous Davene loves saying, “no one follows a parked car.”

Get out of park, ramp up the exercises and excitement, do what Haneel says in week 5 and the place you imagine is where you will be when you manifest your DMP….see it and write it down.

See it, write it ….do it…

Quiad told Foxx on the side lines….for the last play of the game……to ‘See it before you do it’

Watch him see it …..then do it…..

You gotta see it before you can do it.

believe

mark j

world’s laziest networker

Week 4: Thoughts That Fire Together Wire Together, Here’s an Edge

20 Oct

FIRING THOUGHTS TOGETHER

There is a time when each member starts to understand the confluence of the exercises has one primary purpose: to get their thoughts firing together around a new idea.

For each of us, well for most people, there comes an ‘Ah-Ha’ moment.  The day, time and place is different for all of us…..hey, we’re all a little different.

The urging, [OK,OK…the bullying], to get ‘feelings’ attached to the thoughts that will create a new blueprint, a.k.a. neuro-net has been a major focus for a reason.

From the clips in the previous blog-post we know that thoughts firing connect or wire together creating a ‘feeling’ and that ‘feeling’ releases peptides…..dfferent than have been released in the past.

The ‘Ah-Ha’ moment for some has come already…..that there really is a method behind the madness.

MASTER KEY LINK & LINKING

By mastering things we know we can control…..like reading an index card with some very simple and doable things on it …..and establishing the habit of

1]a thought

2]writing it down

3]reading it

4]promising to do it and

5] doing it …..we are following Hanee’sl sage advice…..and over the next few weeks we’ll simply up the ante once the habit is established and a feeling of accomplishment is linked to it.

But….it’s more…..as this ‘habit’ …. “thought-write-say-do” ……replaces the ‘habit’ of proscrastination……and this ‘habit replacing a habit’ links to Scroll 1…..

But…..it’s more…..as this simple chore is linked back to our DMPs…..

The linking thread is one of the 7 Adult learning patterns ~ Spatially…..

By noticing a particular color and/or shape all week…..it should link us back to the index card….a specific task on the card…..which WIRES to the PPNs….

Noticing how these things are linking……….and how ‘cunningly’ we put these things together is fun, we hope you enjoy it…..but….the ‘Ah-Ha’ comes when we discover we really are firing new thoughts together with a purpose …..and wiring them is going to be taken care of by the subconscious.

WIRING TOGETHER AND 7 ADULT LEARNING PATTERNS

Over the next few weeks we’ll be sharing how to integrate the service index card, your PPNs and your Plan of Action with the 7 adult learning patterns so there will be a constant bombardment, effortlessly and unconsciously, of new, vitalizing thoughts about our new reality…..the manifestation of your DMP.

The idea of starting with shapes and colors, spatially, is something anyone can control….we’ll up the ante soon.

KICKING IT UP A NOTCH

By linking together colors and shapes with particular things within my DMP….it will intensify the connection of the new thoughts and make the connections of thoughts I want firing and wiring together stronger faster…….

Here is an example.

believe

Mark Januszewski

World’s Laziest Networker

Master Key Mastermind Alliance